WOA #2: ALWAYS go into work with a money-making...
I know that you’re probably thinking “well DUH, everyone should know this.” True, all dancers should know this but just because this should be the standard, doesn’t mean it’s always the case. It’s very easy to go into work and not be in a hustling mood. Maybe you’re not in the best of moods that day, maybe you’re feeling lazy, or you’re just...
Anonymous asked: I used to wanna be a stripper and I still have a lot of respect for them and like them veryy much :) but I was curious do you ever feel weird when you have a really old guy and he wants like a lap dance. I always wondered if it would be okay to be uncomfortable with doing that and just not. I also understand you can't be picky if you want the money, but I'm not talking looks so much as...
WOA #1: Leave no patron un-hustled
I know that un-hustled isn’t technically a word, but you catch the gist right? It basically means to hustle every patron that comes in the club. Maybe there are patrons you’ve had a bad experience with, heard bad stories about, or who just doesn’t like you for whatever reason. It’s okay to not try and hustle them because as I have asserted before, time is money and you...
I’ve decided to start up a new series on my blog called WOA, abbreviated for Word of Advice. They’re just going to be tips based on my own personal experiences, experiences from other dancers, and just based on observation in general. I’m still going to continue my stripper pet peeves though so no worries. Anyways, look out for my first WOA post very soon!
Stripped: Finding Your Niche: →
taintedstripperlove: Every stripper has a look and fulfills a fantasy of some sort. The faster you find your niche the more money you’ll be making. You will not be everyone’s type, be warned but the guys that will like you, will LOVE you! Some girls instantly look sexy, and they market on that seductress look. Those… Preach girl. Preach.
SPP #41 - Packed club full of broke patrons
You know that whole “don’t judge a book by its cover concept?” Well it applies to many different aspects of the club. One (of many mind you) that really bothers me is the volume of a club. You’d think that more people = more money, and a lot of the time that is the case. Not always though and those shifts are such a let down. It’s especially worse when its on a...
Obs: Autonomy & Context.
avaadore: These are two important words to me in the World of Strip Club: Autonomy. Context. These words can change that world in which we work. These two words can mean the difference between comfort and violation. Remember the half-joking statement, “there’s no such thing as sexual harassment in a strip club”? It’s kind of like that, to me. Autonomy. Context. Autonomy: At the end of it all,...
Stripped: Lotions and Body Spray and Glitter: Oh... →
taintedstripperlove: I cannot stress enough to all the baby strippers not use lotions when you’re at work. I know, I know you want to feel ultra soft and look shiny and new but trust me for your own health you don’t need the stinking lotions. Seriously, no. I learned the hard way when on my third shift I decided to…
The emotional, sexual, and psychological stereotyping of females begins when the...– Shirley Chisholm