adoptmejolie asked: when you first started dancing, was it hard, did you need a lot of upper body strength?
I came across a job posting last week and the position title was Social Companion. I was somewhat intrigued by this title so I decided to see what the position entailed. It turns out this was a more gentle term for non-sexual escorting. I wanted more information so I sent my picture in and a number. I got a call the next day. The lady on the phone explained to me that as a social companion, I...
Anonymous asked: whats usually the body type needed for stripping?
Anonymous asked: How old were you when you first started stripping? And how long have you been in the business? <3
Applicants are told working as a stripper is flexible, lucrative, and that they...– Porn Myth 2. (via anon-cherrybomb)
SPP #40 - Dancing while I'm on my period
I’m not sure if this topic is considered too taboo for tumblr but it’s my blog and this is a HUGE pet peeve of mine. In fact, I’m sure its a serious annoyance for most all exotic dancers. We’re supposed to be looking our sexiest when we’re at work. How is that possible when its that time of the month? When I’m on my period, I don’t look or feel sexy....
A lot of different clubs have these things called 2-4-1’s. I’m not sure if they work the same in all clubs, but I want to talk about mine. Depending on how busy the club is, my club has 2-4-1’s every 4-8 songs. The DJ will play this seriously lame music to let the patrons and dancers know its that time. BTW, by seriously lame music, I mean they play 2 Unlimited’s “Get...
Stripper Beauty Routine
This varies from dancer to dancer. Some girls spend hundreds of dollars weekly to make sure they are in perfect shape for their weekly shifts. Some girls, let’s face it, don’t do enough to prepare themselves for their shifts. It all depends on what works for you, how much you’re willing to spend, and how much you can afford for that matter. Exotic dancers are generally expected...
SPP #39 - The way society portrays sex workers
I addressed one aspect of this little issue in an earlier post. It was the Stripper Pet Peeve on people who think that exotic dancers aren’t intelligent. Unfortunately that isn’t the only negative way workers in the sex industry are viewed. Society paints a horrible picture of what we do and who we are. Many people think that we are any or even all of the following: 1. Drug-addicted....
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SPP #38 - When patrons expect to have sex in the...
In the words of Chris Rock, “There’s no sex in the Champagne Room…None! Oh there’s CHAMPAGNE in the Champagne Room But you don’t want Champagne…you want sex And there’s no sex…in the Champagne Room.” Maybe in some clubs, you can get down and dirty with a stripper in the champagne room. That’s just not the case in my club (and I...
It’s a recession, you’re gonna know more strippers than usual– CBX (via djcbx)
So I must confess that I have been on an on-and-off dancing hiatus this summer. It started because after I graduated, I moved back in with my parents. We live about an hour away from the club I work at. Not that bad of a commute right? It doesn’t matter because even if the club was 5 minutes away, it doesn’t change the fact that I live with over-protective, over-bearing parents who...
SPP #37 - When the DJ plays a bad song during my...
This doesn’t happen too often but when it does, it totally kills my stage buzz. Generally a bad song gets played because of any of the following reasons: 1. DJ doesn’t like you/you pissed him off so he’s taking it out on your stage set 2. DJ is trying out new music and it’s a flop (it happens) 3. DJ just doesn’t have a good feel for the music you dance best to 4....